Hello beautiful ones,
Here is the Overview (word for word as it appears) for the Private Facebook Group I have created called Sexual Biversity for the Women.
If this group resonates with you, we’d love to have you join us in the discussions we are having, will have.
See you in the land of Facebook.
Big love & huge hugs,
‘practice what you passion’®
Sexual Biversity for the Women Overview
The Sexual Biversity private group has been created for the purpose of empowering those women who choose to stay married to (or in a relationship with) their loving men (whom also choose to be in the relationship) who swing both ways.
It is here to guide you, support you, show you, you can indeed have your happily ever after. Sure it may not be the happily ever after you thought you had originally signed up for, however it truly still can be your happily ever after.
How do I know this to be true? Because I am living proof that you can do this! I’m now almost 21 years post disclosure and after many years of heartache and challenges l am more in love with my husband today than what I was 25 years ago when we first started dating and vice versa I might add. If that ain’t proof…I don’t know what is!
I also know I’m not the first woman to achieve/create this. I am however happy to shout out to the world as loud as I possibly can that you too can do this, it can be done!
At the very forefront of this group is unconditional love. The love you have when you embrace your husband’s (partner’s) complete being, including their sexual expression (as well as embracing the unconditional love you have for yourself!). Without trying to change them in any way shape or form to the way in which you think they ‘should’ be or the way in which a marriage (relationship) is ‘supposed’ to be.
You are the creators of your own world; you can create your relationship however you like based on what your rules, guidelines, boundaries and so forth are. Not someone else’s, yours!
Because this is a group of empowering women choosing to empower woman! Please leave all attachments to negativity, being a victim, the poor me’s, the blamers or any form of judgments you may have to how others choose to live their lives, outside this space. Instead choose to come from a place of love, learning, open mindedness, gratitude, releasing, choice, a positive attitude and welcoming the new.
I imagine there will be challenges along the way and we’ll be here to support and assist each other however we can. It will be up to you how you’re going to respond to those challenges that will make all the difference. Feel free to vent if you need to, I ask that you do so coming from a place of possibility and moving forward.
If by chance you’re not in a place where you could even fathom the idea of forgiveness, acceptance, understanding, unconditional love or the fact that you even have a bisexual husband/partner, as it’s too huge a leap away from where you are right now, have a go at ‘what if’. ‘What if’ one day I could forgive him? ‘What if’ one day I could accept his bisexuality? ‘What if’ one day I could understand? ‘What if’ one day I could love unconditionally? ‘What if one day we could negotiate/design our relationship the way we see best fits us? ‘Just ‘what if’!
What if one day is tomorrow?
Please engage here. Share what has worked well for you. Share what hasn’t worked so well and how you’ll do it differently next time. Or ask how could I have done it differently?
Empathise, uplift, encourage, support, suggest, embrace, respect, laugh and love.
I know I may be asking a lot of you, especially when I don’t know where you’re at right now. I also know you are worth it! As too is your relationship. Give it all you’ve got. Commit 100% to yourself, your husband (partner), your family and your life together.
Love is the only truth, everything else is an illusion.
If you don’t already know who I am and would like to know more about me and my journey thus far with my bisexual husband, you can check me out at my blog here www.sexualbiversity.com. Or if you’d like to get to the nitty gritty of how I am living my happily ever after you can also purchase a copy of my book Sexual Biversity, loving my bisexual husband. There’s a link on my site or message me personally to organise how to get your copy.
Also feel free to contact me for 1-on-1/couple mentoring sessions and workshops (coming soon).
Infinite Love & Gratitude.
Big love & huge hugs,