Hello beautiful people,
Wow!
Or as I more commonly like to say woo hoo! (It is at this point that I proudly admitā¦yesā¦I am a woo hoo girl – if you didn’t already know!).
What a whirlwind adventure I have been on these past few weeks since the launch of my first book Sexual Biversity, loving my bisexual husband.
With two book launches, a television appearance, radio interviews, replying to emails, messages, comments, and phone calls, meetings, gatherings, get-togethers and being stopped in the street on several occasions, my life has certainly become much busier in such a short amount of time!
Now to organise it and myself better!
Fortunately what makes me even happier is I havenāt been doing all of this on my own. Having Andrew by my side, doing interviews etc. with me has been such a pleasure and a bonus as well. I love the fact itās not just me, myself and I out there in the big wide world, spreading the word about unconditional love, bisexuality and the power of living an authentic life as husband and wife, beyond the edges of the stereotypical box!
Hmmā¦now is probably a good time to reiterate that by sharing my story so publically and openly Iām certainly not advocating that you must do it my way or indeed this is the only way, if youāre in a relationship similar to mine. What I am doing however is giving you a look see into my world of living and loving my bisexual husband unconditionally and the doās and donāts weāve discovered along the way. Then itās up to you to take what you like and ditch what you donāt. Simple!
And for those of you wondering if a loving, intimate and empowering relationship with a bisexual partner is at all possible to have, especially after a betrayal has taken place, Iām here to tell you it most certainly isā¦if both parties are willing.
You both have to forgive, let go, trust again, negotiate and believe in the power of love once more to create the relationship you choose to have, without buying into what other people will think of you, imagined or otherwise!
I guess really what Iām saying here isā¦if I can do itā¦you can too!
There is nothing special or super-powered about meā¦never has been and never will be!
It all comes down to choice.
I am thrilled to have made the choice to forgive, let go, trust again, negotiate and love unconditionally, my husband and myself, in the way I do today.
As too am I thrilled to do it so publically and from the feedback Iām continuing to receive, I must be doing something right!
To receive such positive and uplifting acknowledgment and thanks, for not only sharing my story and giving hope to so many people in the way I have, how I have actually written my book as well, is truly priceless. Your words of encouragement and support have touched my heart at such a deep level that it is I who thanks youā¦thank you.
I have to admit, thereās also a part of me, dancing around with squeals of delight, from the knowing of a job well done. As before writing Sexual Biverity, I never believed I had the powers that be in me to write anything, let alone a book (I donāt even write Christmas cards as the thought has been so overwhelming!). Iām sure too there would be plenty a school teacher and my mum for that matter, who would attest to this wholeheartedly prior to reading my book!
Woohoo! (I couldnāt resist!).
And as for television, I love, love, love doing that. Give me a hair and makeup artist any dayā¦make that every day! How great it was sitting on the couch with Andrew talking to Georgi, Yumi. George and Meshel from channel tenās the Circle about our relationship and my book. It really does feel so natural to me now. I could have talked with them for hours!
If you didnāt see Andrew and I on channel tenās the Circle you can view it online here http://ten.com.au/
Well, I guess itās onwards and upwards from here.
Mustā¦getā¦moreā¦organisedā¦!
Remember it all comes down to choice. Choose the good stuff! Choose love!
Woohoo!
Big love & huge hugs,
Lyndal
āpractice what you passionāĀ®
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