Hello beautiful people,
Thanks for dropping by (no pun intended!) and welcome to my world.
If you haven’t read what it is I’m doing here you may want to have a look at First time? Start here. Otherwise the fact that I’m going to talk about sex, sexuality, especially bisexuality, may be a little off putting if that’s not why you thought were dropping by. I also plan to talk about relationships, especially the relationship that we have with ourselves, and of course lots and lots about life in general as well. Who knows perhaps I’ll throw in a favorite recipe or two! Although just so we are absolutely clear this is going to be mostly about Sexaul Biversity.
I have had a long time (seventeen years) to get use to being so open and honest about how I choose to live my life with my beloved husband Andrew, since discovering that he was having sex with men, that it seems to come naturally to me now. I don’t shake in my boots any more or worry about what you might be thinking of me. I now know this is my truth, who I was born to be and what I was born to do, and well, I love it, and am more than happy to stand tall in that truth.
I am thrilled that I have had this opportunity to step into my power as a woman and rise above and beyond any obstacles that have been thrown my way. Sometimes I did stumble and trip and even landed flat on my backside and have no doubts that I will possibly again. Although thankfully I walk much stronger today and don’t carry any bruising or scarring from the past along with me and really am all the better a person for having had the experience. In having reached this place, I would like to share with you how I got here and inform you that not only is it possible to grow beyond any old and limiting beliefs, conditioning etcetera, that no longer serve you, how totally liberating it can be as well, if you so choose.
I am a big believer in choices. I am an even bigger believer in informed choices. This is my offer to you, to inform you to the best of my ability of what I have grown through to reach the place that not only have I accepted Andrew’s bisexuality, I embrace that part of who he is totally without any exception.
Where this journey will take us, that is you and me, I have no idea. I just know that I am ready to begin this journey with you and if you think you’d like to come along for part or all of the journey then that’s great. If however you thought you were visiting someone else this may be a good time to bid you farewell and wish you all the best with your travels, au revoir et salut (translation – good bye and take care).
Throughout my own healing I read a lot of the what not to do’s and the can’ts or the won’ts. That is why I would like to share with you all about the can’s. If you choose to, you can forgive another human being no matter what the circumstances and in doing so I believe that it is you who is set free not the person to whom you forgive. You can rebuild trust. You can have your happily ever after, it just may not be the one you thought you were getting in the first place!
I’ve decided no holding back. I’m taking the plunge and I’m sure that I can swim, if not I know I can definitely float! Love is what makes the world go round. To love another unconditionally, I mean to really love another unconditionally and not change them in any way, shape or form, to how you would rather they be, is absolutely pure bliss.
That’s probably enough for now.
Love & hugs,
‘practice what you passion’®